SHRD: A microblog of life, passing thoughts, and quick notes.

Life


  • Bin Day Ballet

    Just past six, half-dressed, I lug bins down the drive, clumsy and hurried, signalling the reluctant start of the week. The neighbour offers polite indifference as wheels thunder and lids slam. A hush follows, calm after chaos. There’s no applause—just the dependable kettle waiting to begin the real routine.

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  • Wrong Recipient, New Identity

    You press ‘send’, spot the name, and feel your soul bolt. You script an apology, daydream about relocating to a cave. You settle for ‘Oops, wrong chat’—then promise yourself: next message, you triple-check and live to text again.

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  • Neighbours’ Hedge Wars

    It began with a courteous trim. Years ago, during a long summer, both families had laughed together over a shared lemonade beneath the very hedge that now marks their battleground. Then came the tape measure, mutters, and sharp remarks about “property lines.” Now, gardening feels like a skirmish. The hedge has withstood barbed insults, smiles edged by tension, and one set of shears wielded like a sabre. This feud is driven by more than perceptions of neatness or ownership; the hedge discreetly divides private worlds, sheltering old grudges—a silent monument to boundaries built and breaches remembered.

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  • A Walk Without a Destination

    You claim you’re just stretching your legs, but it’s more. The streets don’t lead anywhere in particular, inviting you to notice fresh cracks, old graffiti, and how your thoughts slow to match your steps. As you walk, a specific insight appears: a vivid memory of tracing childhood constellations. This stays with you, reshaping the walk as a purposeful journey through memories and new ideas.

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  • Dog in a Jumper

    You meet a dachshund in knitwear, unsure if it’s cosy or cross. It trots with intent, sleeves near puddles, owner beaming. You nod at both as if this is standard. Maybe it is. The dog’s warmer than you, anyway.

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  • A Cup of Tea and Nothing Else

    Sometimes, the only thing worth doing is sitting with a perfectly steeped mug. No screens, no chores, no restless planning. Just the comfort of warmth between your hands and the rare luxury of granting yourself a pause. Odd how scheduling that feels impossible. Maybe stillness isn’t forbidden—we’re just learning to permit it.

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  • Finding an Old Ticket Stub

    I pulled a four-year-old bus ticket from my coat and was back on my granddaughter’s first ride. No top deck adventure, downstairs only, the steps were bad enough, and worse with a two-year-old. Rain freckles on the window, her nose to the glass, a small hand guarding the bell. The driver clocked the nerves, gave a kind nod, and we rumbled through town at pram speed. The stub goes back in the pocket, and the timetable stays in memory.

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  • Rain Logic

    The forecast promised ‘light showers’; the sky staged a whole opera, and I still hung the washing because hope is stubborn in this country. Pegs on, line sagging, trousers flapping like a weak flag. Ten minutes later, the rain eased, as if bored. I checked a sleeve and called it ‘nearly dry’. If it’s wearable by tea, that counts as science.

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  • Footprints on the Path

    On the chalk path near Petersfield, I saw an elderly couple hand in hand, and wondered how many quiet miles their feet have kept together. Hedgerows rattled, a robin watched, and their steps matched like a slow waltz. Scuffed soles, steady pace, no rush, no phones. I let them pass and counted backwards through my own walks. They kept walking; I kept counting.

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  • The Barista’s Nod

    There’s a quiet pleasure in walking into the local coffee shop and having your order start without a word, as if the day already knows your name. A nod from behind the counter, a cup placed, the till beeps, and a loyalty card gains a neat stamp. No speech, no fuss, just proof that someone noticed. Five seconds of being known, then back to the rush.

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